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Are You Hard On Yourself?
By Mary Francis · Originally published: January 10, 2013
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Often we handle our negative feelings by eating all the time. Then we berate ourselves, saying that we have no will power and no one will love us again.
Almost all of our programming, both negative and positive, became part of us by the time we were three years old. Our life since then is based on what we accept and believe about ourselves.
What happened in the past is done and you now have the opportunity to treat yourself the way you want to be treated by other people.
Be kind to yourself. If you love yourself others will react to that positive energy. You will then start to see yourself at your highest potential.
Flow with the changes taking place in your life as best as you can. Remember that life is ever-changing and that you are doing the best you can.
Release your resistance to change because it’s part of everyone’s life and don’t be hard on yourself if you stumble along the way.