There is no special occasion as hurtful as Valentine’s Day for highlighting that you no longer have your loved one and that you are now a widow. They say grief brings people closer together. It’s not true – grief is isolating. It takes hold of your heart and doesn’t let go. We need others, in ways that can’t really be explained. I think our broken hearts need to feel supported and cared for. Yes, there is something healing about being cared for and loved by others - knowing that if we no longer existed, we would be missed. This poem is from the book “Chicken Soup for the Grieving Soul”. I want to pass it on to everyone that has had to say good-bye to a loved one. I Wish You Enough . I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright, . I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more, . I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive, . I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joy appears bigger, . I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting, . I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess, . I wish you enough “hellos” to get you through the final “good-bye”. Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever? Recognizing that their time is short and so taking the time to tell them how much they meant to you. I love this poem because I think if they were here for Valentine’s Day our loved ones would say “I Wish You Enough”.