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As A Widow, Are You A Follower?
Archive notice: This is a historical post from Mary’s years of blogging. Some older posts may mention products, courses or shop items that are no longer available, as Mary now focuses her time and energy on supporting widows inside her private Facebook community. The guidance and stories remain here as a free resource for widows.
For current ways to connect with Mary’s work, you can:
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- Request to join her private Facebook group for widows .
When you have lost a loved one it's easy to fall into a pattern of allowing yourself to drift along by taking a submissive role in life.
But what happens is that you end up being a follower with no direction of your own. Giving up your personal power will only add to your misery.
You are at a low point in your life and may be riddled with self-doubt and fear of the future. You need to acknowledge that changes have to be made and the best way to do that is by making a "to do" list of things to accomplish.
You are a valuable person and have lots to offer your friends and family so don't become a follower. Confront your fears and replace them with more constructive alternatives.