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Surviving Widowhood
By Mary Francis · Originally published: January 1, 2012
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To "survive" as per the dictionary means "to live after the death of another person; to continue, endure; to come through alive".
I think that surviving widowhood is more than just "coming through alive". It's a journey where you grow stronger and more independent. You really have no choice because grief wants to take over your life. You will not "come through alive" - in fact you will just be letting the world pass you by.
Do more than "survive" - get to know yourself and come out swinging. Stand up and fight for a life that is full of friends and family. Join groups, volunteer, find your passion and just go do it. Don't feel bad that your the one that's alive - instead be even more alive by seeking out positive people. Be a survivor in more than body - be a survivor in your heart and soul.