Widows can do less, have less, read and grow less. Be less disciplined and lead less of a life or widows can become all that they can be. Read everything, earn more, give and share as much as they can as they accomplish more. The choice - to be all or not. Every time we choose to do less than we could, it affects our self-confidence. Repeated often and we get a life of "less". But every time we choose action, we build our self-confidence and we get a life of "more". Change allows and begins with choices. If you don't like how things are, change it! You are not a mindless animal - you have the ability to totally transform every area of your life and it all begins with your power of choice. If we were to start today to read the books, keep a journal, attend some classes, listen more, then today would be the first day of a new life leading to a better future. So, What do you choose?