Here is a great article about dating and remarrying.  A widow from New Hampshire had written to Dear Abby about getting married again and how her children don’t want her to.  In this article Abby gives the widow advice on how to handle this situation. DEAR ABBY: I am a widow with four teenagers. My husband died four years ago, and I have been seeing "Ken" - a wonderful man - for 18 months.   I realize that life is precious.  I'm happy with my decision to marry, but the kids are trying to make me feel guilty and make no attempt to get to know Ken. How can I foster a relationship between them and their future stepdad, help them to move on and accept my happiness. Read the full article from this link:  http://tinyurl.com/9hgr8ok