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Believe In Yourself
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Do you believe in yourself? Healing starts there because every day is a new start of thoughts, dreams and hope. To neglect today, as a widow, is to delay your healing in the future.
There is no better day, opportunity or time than the current moment. Seize the positive moments as you find them. Today’s procrastination will be tomorrow’s regrets. Go after those moments of positive change, forcing yourself to turn off the television and embrace the opportunity to make new memories.
Direct your thoughts, conversations and full attention to what you believe in, what you want and the purpose for being here.
Have confidence in yourself and always become all that you can be. Do not spend time or regrets on the past, but instead invest your energy into this day.
Yes, you need to first grieve and should not rush that time. But there should also come a time of healing where we are open to change and realize that life is still full of potential. The key is to believe in yourself, know that you are worth the effort and care as much about yourself as you do your loved ones.
Let life find you with a happy heart, with confidence in your future, gratitude for what you still have and a life of unlimited possibilities. You see, life just doesn’t change positively without help. But, life does continue and the question is, in what direction will it take you?
You decide every minute of your life how much abundance you allow into your life. When you are open to changing the quality of your life you will see new people showing up. They will help you create new opportunities that challenge you to do better.
All change occurs in the instant you make a decision. It’s really powerful to say “No More” and to believe enough in yourself to end what is no longer working for you.
You create your life, it is never too difficult as long as you focus on the positive and believe in yourself. Open your heart and mind to the awareness that happiness is out there for you. Nothing can beat you down and KEEP you there, unless you give up and let it.
Open your eyes to the abundance that is everywhere. Make a conscious choice to receive the positives and let go of the toxic people around you. Every day that you choose to receive abundance, you are overcoming your fears and expanding your comfort zone.
Believe in yourself – be clear on what you want and always be open to something better showing up. You decide every moment of life how you will live it, so please believe in yourself and live it to the fullest.