It's important that as we grieve we continue to live with integnity.  As widows we have to be careful that we don't get scammed and taken advantage of. But, on the other side we don't want to take the easy way out and go along with what others want us to do, especially if we don't totally agree with it. When grieving we are low in energy and sometimes we let others take the lead. Always ensure that your actions fall within your standards. You don't want to come out of your grief and find out that things were done in your name that you don't approve of.   https://youtu.be/ZjdUiN-45Ak